I have frequently been asked, "So are you attracted to black men... or just curious?"   Attracted, YES.  Just curious, NO.  On physical appeal, nothing is sexier to me than the gorgeous, vibrant color, the sensuous contrast of light skin against dark, the erotic power of dark deeply penetrating the lighter, the sight and feel of his hands touching and taking my body, black on white, gives me scrumptous shivers, ...just envisoning past trysts gets me unbelievably xcited, breathless, and sooo tingly... Come on what is sexier than this??  

Also what's a woman's favorite gift- think Valentines' Day and anniversaries?  OK, some of you said jewelry (true too) and some said my absolute favortie- a hunky, muscular, sensuous man with a hott, irrestible hard cock who doesn't ask, he just takes me, owns me, devours me, and it's all I can do to remember to breath and not scream out too loudly as I am sooo startled, possesessed, debased and primally sexual.  (Wow, did writing that bring back wonderful feelings.)  OK, back to my question-  I was talking about receiving chocolate candy as a favorite and ever so delicious gift. I don't know about you but I LOVE chocolate candy- especially dark chocolate- the taste, texture, and high. No one has ever brought me a bowl of crushed ice or snow (white) as a Valentine's or anniversary present.  Although ice can be used for other very special purposes, along with dripping wax, gags, and spanking...LOL  ;)  But back to the topic, chocolate is a substance of lovers, love, and sex.  How can anyone remove it from their favorites list when it is applied to men ???  Guess I am just lucky and can enjoy, cherish, and gorge myself on the absolutely, incredible sensual pleasures all forms of chocolate  (candy as well as my other sweeties). 

My love of black men has been true since I first started noticing guys.  My first hotwife affair was with a black neighbor and friend. For me it is a preference for a lover who ultimately cares more about you than himself.  That said, I do love and need to be taken, owned, used and "abused" but it is the exceptional lover who can do this right- sensually "abuse" me as I long to be abused. I find pleasureis finding a man who will hold me in his strong arms, capture and possess my body, heart and soul, all the while soothing me and pleasuring me beyond my wildest dreams.

I don't believe what some people write about black (men) and white (women) relationships that they are based on unhealthy psychological issues- power struggles, coping with a fear by transferring it to a kinky fetish, or personality inadequancy and weakness. I recognoize that it may be true for some, but I would guess not the majority of women, myself or my friends included. I simply like and LOVE a gorgeous black man, just as I love men with cut and ripped muscular bodied men. Not to love men of color seems irrational to me. Even my husband's (and other white men's) cock, balls, and ass are the darkest, most pigmented parts of their body- ever think about that?  And aren't those parts the sexiest, most overwhelminig, seductive parts. When you picture a HARD white cock, caress it, devour it, or take it ever sooo deeply into you - is it not its delicious darkness and enraged color that draws you to it, forces you into a impassioned, crazed frenzy, takes over you sensible mind and leaves you in a state of wanton, primal animal lust? OK, then tell me again why you aren't in love with beautiful BBC's? 

I would love to hear your toughts and stories.